no offense @ ppl who are always so easily suggesting “cutting” ppl out your lives like I appreciate the intention I appreciate the thought but in what world are you living that blatantly cutting off communication w/ somebody you regularly see or associate w/ has no consequence or complications like in what world
Cutting people out is a last resort reserved for people who won’t respect your boundaries even after you create emotional distance. Abusive exes who won’t stop touching you, calling you or begging you to get back together etc. Friends who won’t stop insulting you after you’ve asked. Family that degrade you.
Some of yall are labeling any personal conflict as toxic and cutting people out as your first tactic of conflict resolution. That shit ain’t healthy it just enables you to feed your fear of conflict instead of actually learning to deal with having hard conversations.
(via wholedonut)
